光棍節(jié)到了，你的戀人找到了嗎?是否還是和往年一樣借著瘋狂購(gòu)物來(lái)掩飾心中的失落和尷尬。今年，陪著我們長(zhǎng)大的明星紛紛傳出喜訊，一起玩大的朋友紛紛曬小孩，就連街上行單影只的也少了，寂寞，孤獨(dú)，無(wú)所適從的感覺(jué)不斷涌上心頭。這個(gè)11.11該怎么過(guò)?不想繼續(xù)買(mǎi)大堆根本用不著的東西，我們需要的是精神上的安慰，那么，這個(gè)時(shí)候，最適合我們的莫過(guò)于書(shū)籍了。關(guān)掉電腦，手機(jī)，泡一壺茶，捧一卷書(shū)，于寂寞無(wú)人處?kù)o靜地療養(yǎng)心靈。下面這些線話從書(shū)籍中搜集到的精讀愛(ài)情語(yǔ)錄，還望為單身你的送去一份溫暖和愛(ài)的勇氣。

　　1.In ur life, there will at least one time that u forget yourselffor someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love.Just ask for meeting u in my most beautiful years.

　　一生至少該有一次，為了某個(gè)人而忘了自己，不求有結(jié)果，不求同行，不求曾經(jīng)擁有，甚至不求你愛(ài)我。只求在我最美的年華里，遇到你。

　　Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait,feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, andrecall.All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret forit.

　　鐘情，相思，暗戀，渴慕，等待，失望，試探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追憶似水流年……種種這些，都曾因你而經(jīng)歷，也就誓不言悔。

　　2.Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? Wealways think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviestthing in the world. But one day, when u look back, u suddenly realizethat it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, butin fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

　　有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深，很深，來(lái)日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道 ，它不過(guò)很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài)，必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。

　　3.Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place Ilove. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the worldcan explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because manis lack of that understanding

　　愛(ài)情不是存在于我住的地方，而是存在于我愛(ài)的地方。愛(ài)情是用全世界所有的名言都無(wú)法解釋的未知世界。男人可以了解宇宙卻不能了解女人，因?yàn)槟腥巳狈δ欠N腦細(xì)胞。

　　4.If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion;if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable,she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

　　女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性，就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了，她只有不幸。

　　5.Happiness is that u have food to eat, place to sleep and people to love. Happiness is when thedesolated soul meets love.

　　有吃的東西，有睡覺(jué)的地方，有所愛(ài)的人，便是幸福。幸福是荒廢的靈魂遇到愛(ài)的邂逅。

　　我們還沒(méi)有遇著愛(ài)，有些因素可能是緣分沒(méi)到。但更多的因素，我們需要問(wèn)問(wèn)自己：是不是呆在家里的時(shí)間多?是不是懶散于交際?是不是愛(ài)說(shuō)直話?是不是不愛(ài)打扮?是不是……有肯定答案的時(shí)候，無(wú)論如何，請(qǐng)學(xué)著改變。哪怕是一個(gè)小興趣，也可以學(xué)個(gè)技能提升自己，比如參加線話英語(yǔ)的口語(yǔ)培訓(xùn)，讓你自信開(kāi)口，一步一步攻破自己的社交障礙。比如，參加魅力寫(xiě)生，讓你妙筆生花，由內(nèi)而外散發(fā)美麗氣質(zhì)，無(wú)論哪一種，請(qǐng)記得下面兩句話：

　　人都是會(huì)改變的，有些人選擇改變環(huán)境，有些人選擇被環(huán)境改變。很多時(shí)候你無(wú)法改變的時(shí)候，我只好選擇，在里面找到讓自己快樂(lè)的力量。(People will always change. Some choose to change theenvironment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of thetime when u cannot change, u have to choose to find something to makeyourself happy.　)

　　與其等到別人來(lái)愛(ài)你，不如自己學(xué)著努力多愛(ài)自己一些，如果今天的你沒(méi)有比昨天更喜歡自己，那明天對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)又有什么意義呢?(It's better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today u don't like yourself more than yesterday,so what's the meaning of tomorrow?)